Today, I feel like I need to address one of the most insidious myths about troubled marriages.  Ready?22steppingintoour0apower0aoftenmeans0asteppingoutof0aourcomfort22-default (2)

The myth is that trouble marriages appear at random, seemingly out of nowhere.

Reality Check:

Troubled marriages don’t just happen.  They are created.

It might seem like they just happen.  And despite our perceptions to the contrary, the undoing of many marriages is written into the daily grind of life.  [Read the full article at]